But you're at your wits end with:
Hitting, aggression, or explosive reactions
Defiant behaviour or shutting down when demands are placed
Frequent meltdowns that seem to come “out of nowhere”
Behaviour that doesn’t respond to consequences or rewards
Raising Kids With Big Baffling Behaviours is a trauma-informed parenting course designed to help parents understand challenging behaviour and respond with clarity, confidence, and connection.
It's a different lens entirely.
Developed by Robyn Gobbel and built on relational neuroscience, this is the course that reshaped how I parent my own kids. Over 14 weeks, you'll learn to understand what's driving the hard behaviour and respond with clarity, confidence, and connection -instead of power struggles.
This isn't content you work through alone.
Each week pairs a short lesson you watch on your own time with a live group coaching session- small, no more than eight families- where we bring what you're learning into your actual life.
Not theory.
Your kid, your house, your hard Thursday afternoons.
Read behaviour as information, not defiance
Build a toolbox of brain, body, and sensory strategies that hold up outside the pages of a book
Work through the part almost no parenting course talks about: what happens between knowing what to do and actually being able to do it- in the moment, when your own nervous system is just as activated as your child's
This is for you if you're
Ready to move past behaviour charts and consequence systems that keep almost working
Longing to actually see your child, even the parts they can't show you yet
Willing to look inward, not just adjust your child, but sit with your own responses too
Tired of strategies that make sense in a book and fall apart the second things get hard
This might not be the right fit if you're...
Looking for a single behaviour intervention to fix a specific problem
Most comfortable with consequence-based approaches
Not ready to consider what's happening underneath the behaviour
Parenting a child with chronically dangerous behaviours (violence, aggression, substance use, self-injury), this program isn't built for crisis-level safety concerns, and you deserve support designed specifically for that
I'll open it up for a maximum of 8 families, kept small on purpose so the live coaching stays personal. As the first cohort, it's priced at $500 for the full 12 weeks (future cohorts will run $1500–$2000).
Section 1- How to Become the Expert in Your Child’s Behaviours. Using the science of being relationally, socially, and behaviourally human, this section will demystify the most baffling behaviours. You’ll change how to see and interpret your child’s behaviour. That change will become the most powerful tool in your parenting toolbox.
Section 2- Now, Let’s “Fix” Those Behaviours. Your parenting toolbox will be stuffed with brain, body, and sensory strategies- that actually work. These techniques will strengthen your child’s nervous system and decrease baffling behaviours. Better yet, by the end of this section you’ll know what interventions to use when.
Section 3- Why Knowing Isn’t Even Half the Battle. You aren’t a bad parent, so what happens between learning new parenting skills and actually using those new parenting skills? Section 3 will grow your tolerance for baffling behaviours so you can parent the way that you want to.